Austerity
means being in a state of self-control or a state of denial.In sanskrit, it can
be translated as Tapas or following a steady practice with the aim of spiritual
or higher gains.In Chapter 17 of Bhagavad Gita, Lord Krishna explains various
types of austrities that elevate ones consciousness from the material or
worldly platform to that of spiritual.The verse 15 below, especially talks
about the austerity of speech.
“anudvega-karam
vakyam
satyam priya-hitam ca yat
svadhyayabhyasanam caiva
van-mayam tapa ucyate
Translation:
Austerity of speech consists in speaking words that are truthful, pleasing,
beneficial, and not agitating to others, and also in regularly reciting Vedic
literature(Bg 17.15)”.
I
think, this is a very important verse that is useful not only for spiritual but
also for day to day basis. It is the general tendency of people to gossip about
something or someone, either at work place or
meeting
up with friends.Gossip - is the root cause of so many
misunderstandings,tensions,friction between people and friends. The whole
atmosphere and the relationships are spoilt just by this.Ever wonder why people
gossip ?. I think one reason is that people who feel low or bad about
themselves get a temporary relief by talking bad about others or trying to
expose or show something negative in others.And, there are so many other
reasons like, people gossip to get some attention, popularity, envy, to make
them feel part of a group etc. It is said that if you find a fault in someone,
it is because you have that same fault within you – hundreds of times more than
what you are trying to show in another person. Of course, this is not same as
constructive criticism by some well wishers, parents or seniors. Thus, control
of tongue or urge to speak nonsense is the most important aspect of Austerity
of speech.
In
ancient Greece,Socrates was widely lauded for his wisdom. One day the great
philosopher came upon an acquaintance who ran up to him excitedly and said,
"Socrates, do you know what I just heard about one of your students?"
"Wait
a moment," Socrates replied. "Before you tell me I'd like you to pass
a little test called, the Test of Three."
"Test
of Three?"
"That's
right," Socrates continued. "Before you talk to me about my student
let's take a moment to test what you're going to say. The first test is Truth.
Have you made absolutely sure that what you are about to tell me is true?"
No,"
the man said, "actually I just heard about It."
"All
right," said Socrates. "So you don't really know if it's true or not.
Now let's try the second test, the test of Goodness. Is what you are about to
tell me about my student something good?"
"No,
on the contrary..."
"So,"
Socrates continued, "you want to tell me something bad about him even
though you're not certain it's true?"
The
man shrugged, a little embarrassed.
Socrates
continued. "You may still pass though, because there is a third test - the
filter of Usefulness. Is what you want to tell me about my student going to be
useful to me?"
"No,
not really."
"Well,"
concluded Socrates, "if what you want to tell me is neither True nor Good
nor even Useful, why tell it to me at all?"
The
man was defeated and ashamed. This is the reason Socrates was a great
philosopher and held in such high esteem.So next time, you meet someone and
they want to say something to you, You know what to ask?.Is it true, useful and
something good ?.
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