This
is a old saying from Jamaica and surely, there are similar saying in all the
languages. For every action there is equal and opposite reaction aka Karma.Nothing
happens by chance.Whatever you experience or happening in this life are the
consequences of your actions from your past life which includes this life and
countless previous lives.
You
don’t need to get angry at God or try to threaten God that I will not pray to
you or why are you doing this to me, what have I done to deserve this etc. If
you spit into the sky, the sky is not affected but, it is the person who spat
gets it back.
In
the Canto 7 of Srimad Bhagavatam, we see that Prahlad a small boy of 5 years is
harassed by his demoniac father in numerous ways. The reason was that he was
worshiping Lord Narayana who Hiranyakashipu considered as his enemy. So he
tried everything, to harm, kill the little boy by throwing him into a fire, a
room full of snakes, boiling oil, throwing him from a cliff, walking elephants
over him. And, what did Prahlad do?. He did not say – Oh God, why are you doing
this to me.I am afterall your devotee ? I will stop praying you. He was totally
undisturbed and brave, not resisting in any of the acts his father did on him.
The Lord took personally care of him by
saving him from all the inconveniences and dangers posed by his Hiranyakashipu.
Similarly,
in life we face bad things rather than questioning God, we need to question
ourselves why this is happening. Treat others like the way you want to be
treated. Definitely, it is not due to your Wife, Boss, friends back biting you.
And generally, the tendency is that once you get used to this Habit of blaming
others, sometimes those people can't or won't find anyone else to blame and then they turn to the unseen God.
So
who is to be blamed ?. The answer to this can be found in Srimad Bhagavatam,
Canto 11, Chapter 23 The Song of the Avanti Brahmana which comes as a part of
Lord Krishna’s Instructions to Uddhava called as Uddhava Gita. The brahmana who
lost all his wealth, betrayed by family members, homeless and roaming as a beggar
makes these famous statement “Neither mortal persons, the demigods, the soul,
the ruling planets, the reactions of work nor time are the causes of one’s
happiness and distress. Rather, the mind alone is their cause, because it is
the mind that makes the spirit soul wander in the cycle of material life. The
real purpose of all charity, religiosity and so forth is to bring the mind
under control. A person who has already composed his mind in meditation has no
need for these other processes, and for a person who is incapable of fixing his
mind they are of no practical use”. Thus, the Avanti Brahmana became sober by
developing a spirit of detachment and became a mendicant and spent his life
roaming the world chanting the glories of God.